The yoyo game of a heart....!!

In life we all want that one person that loves us, that buy's flowers for us and that makes us feel so special. The problem is with that when a person becomes divorced is that one is often drawn to people who have the very same attributes that you left behind. Also one word of kindness does not mean someone has changed it is simply one word. One holds onto that one word allowing that one word to be like God had spoken it Himself and wanting to think that we are normal again. You want that pressure of not having to wonder if money is paid in or if silly mental games are been played. It is a yoyo and perhaps in truth we allow it. We are so low on love so to speak like a car running out of fuel that we want our love tank of kind words and expressions to be filled by love that in truth all we are filling it up with is air and water and more issues arise. Children and young people face this if they are from a divorced home. It is almost like liking a kid at school that is unreachable a guy on the football team so to speak he smiles and your like he loves me when reality he is cheating on every girl he has ever dated. Perhaps as I type this it is more important in these times to plough our minds into a God who never changes and to find people that direct us to true love. The Bible says in 1 cor 13:1-13 how love is patient and talks in depth what love is and is not. I believe in normal words what is says is this Love is not a person at a masquerade ball, love is not a yoyo or a deceiver love is not a bowl been hit on a rope and going no where, love does not play games that are only played to hurt the other and love is not their to make you feel lonely and empty and unloved. No love is none of those so why are we drawn to that love. It is simply because we are so wanting love that we forget and ignore what love truly is I say to you reading this, pick up the armor of righteousness and stand firm in who you are in God. Because all the rest is but a lie from the devil and we are so much better than the devil's lie. A rose is who you are not a piece of trash so don't forget that if God's son died for you then we need to hold onto that He loves us enough to truly love us how we should be loved in perfect love. So remember you are not a yoyo but you are perfectly and wonderfully made in God's image and He loves you. You are not alone and your love is perfect in Him.