A Blog to encourage everyone through life by a British woman learning to make it in the States with her family.
Monday, June 3, 2013
The blaming game... oh so grow up PLEASE.
Ever just blamed someone for something you have done...sure you have, I have. Easier to not to live in conviction that you might be wrong and need to have your attitude checked. Easy in life to think that by doing certain things that one gets gratification in the way that you think you should. The problem is with that, that is your expectations are so high and the other problem no one can read your mind. It is easy to blame everyone else, but as children grow up this becomes a problem in an adult who has learnt as a child perhaps to blame others and not be held accountable. Saying sorry is one thing. Actions need to be followed through and it is that, that makes you a man or a woman of integrity.
In today's world we have almost brought up a society of finger pointing immature children in adult body's. As a society we have made people blaming another an acceptable thing. In court room settings the finger pointing carries on to an extent that the integrity of another is destroyed. Someone who holds themselves accountable is looked as perhaps weak but in truth they are the person that society needs to be turning to and moving towards. The name blame game is looked at in children as a thing not to do yet in adults it is acceptable. I say where have all the people of integrity gone where has a man or woman gone who will take full accountability for their actions and not point the finger but say when they are wrong expecting nothing in return other than the knowledge that doing what is right is all that matters with or without praise.
Grace is indeed being not the name blaming person but taking full responsibility for one's own actions and expecting nothing in return.
Now what person are you going to be?!!!
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