Daddy..I will always love you..please say you will always love me !!

My dad and i use to go for walks, and play peaking out of a window game. He never dressed up as Father Christmas, i choice to not have him give me away when I got married and he has never seen my children. Yet how many women young and old can truly say all they want to hear is their Dad say that He loves them and then perhaps say that they are sorry. We all mess up,don't get me wrong but the lessons of being a parent are huge. It is in simple things like listening in admitting you were wrong at times and seeing that life is not all about yourself but actually giving back of yourself and seeing someone live a better life than you perhaps did. It is in just being there with your whole heart no excuses not saying a word but giving with no cost but a heart of compassion and brokenness and hearing what your child really has to say. It is as if time has stopped and you get a moment to not reclaim years but to make peace with all the tears you have cried inside. Yet so many parents do not cross this road, is it pride, is it their own insecurities or is it just their own doubt that perhaps in listening and allowing another to share their pain and that person being the very person they brought into the world that they might not be loved. I tell you in listening in being venerable one allows God to stop the world and you learn to have compassion you learn that to love one most carry another's burdens and to love your own child you must lay down your own self to hear the broken cries of so many children/adults who cry from their hearts Daddy I will always love you... please say you will always love me. It is simple men however old we as women and girls are we all just want a dad to listen and just truly love us. One that says That's my girl and says truly with a humble heart I am proud of my girl and I will always love you... So will you Man up or will you watch your son or daughter cry alone.. Your choice... but let me tell you time waits for no man and it does not wait for you.