A Blog to encourage everyone through life by a British woman learning to make it in the States with her family.
Saturday, September 8, 2012
We need each other
As a divorced woman I find it very hard to think that I will ever remarry. Perhaps many others feel the same. I have also found it hard not to give up caring for a person that I was married to for eighteen years.
But a few things I have learnt down this road is that bitterness only causes more aching and a broken heart, forgiveness in time heals you. Asking for help is not a crime, judging others is. Been you is the best, thing you can give yourself and give yourself a break every now and again. Bills will always be there but you don't always have to have a new pair of shoes go to a secondhand place and you get two for the price you would pay for not even one. Been sent gifts from home is not you been a burden it is someone caring for you. Hugs are from Heaven and dancing in the rain brightens the soul. Taking time to sit down is alright the housework will always be there but your time to take a few minutes to breath is valuable to you making it through another day.
So there are a few things I have learnt. I hope it helps you in whatever you are going through. Each of us need each other and each of our roads are very different,
but one lesson for sure is that we need each other. And I am thankful that you are on this road with me.
Please have a cup of tea with me.
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